Frustration

Being a frustrated therapist lately, I have been getting myself to calm down and thinking what to do to help everyone the best.

My primary kid has been involving in excessive self-injurious behaviors lately.
He bangs his head to the point that he would not stop and get very emotional about things that may go unnoticed. I just cannot imagine how life is like for him at home. There is no way for us to communicate with him, neither he can communicate with us. He just cries and bangs his head - sometimes, gets what he wants/ gets attention. He is just so angry at the world, at everybody, for misunderstanding him and ignoring him in his lonely little world.

What is really 'killing' me is that his poor mom tries to take care of him and herself (in the absence of her husband temporarily away in China). Having a dysfunctional kid in the family, why would the man want to leave the family and be away? Just give me an acceptable reason. The family is dysfunctional and at least he can try to arrange a friend or two to look after your wife and your son. Anyway, just my personal thought...

I'm speaking like a BIG MICROPHONE to voice out all these concerns and opinions!
Perhaps I should change my role not using microphone as a singer anymore.
I should definitely use the microphone to tell people stop abusing or neglecting your loved ones.
I can only find peace when my primary kid is safe, sound, learning, and finding the bridge with the world. His mom is so good for being there for him. She just doesn't know what to do. Bless their hearts for making a change in this world!